Dear Ideal Guy:
I'm not too superficial about physical appearance, but it does count for something. I'm not THAT evolved. I'm looking for someone who is tall, at least 6'0". I have nothing against the small people of the world, but I'm 5'10". So, there's that. Good teeth and good hair choices (No sweeping over a bald spot, and etc.). You shouldn't spend too much time on getting ready. It takes me about 5 minutes.
I like an ambitious, creative, quirky, smart, witty guy because I think I am all those things and it keeps me mentally engaged, which is hot. I like a little weird in a dude because it means you have your own unique thoughts, opinions and perspectives on things. I like someone who has his own life because I do. I'm a mom, work full-time and do standup on top of that. I just can't be one of those couples that does everything together. I really like myself and hanging out with me and I am not in need of anyone. It would be great to have someone there if it's the right person. No needy people.
Since I do have a daughter, I want a guy who likes kids a lot, but not too much, if you know what I'm saying. I'll need some patience. I can't just hang out at a moment's notice or for hours on end or surprise vacations (I'll need to plan ahead). I feel like I must clarify, I am not looking for a replacement dad, just a nice guy. I don't need your financial assistance. I've been doing this on my own for years now. So, relax. Be thoughtful, but relax. Finally, I am a single mom and despite the stereotypes (whether it be undersexed or oversexed or in need of sex), it is an important part of a relationship for me, and so it should be for a potential partner of mine.
Communication and honesty are essential for obvious reasons. Surprisingly, those things are often not there because we all get scared. I get it. Just be you and let me know what's going on. I'll do the same.
That's really it. I'm not looking for anything too fancy or lofty. Just be cool, caring and kinda hot. Oh, and don't live too far away. There's a lot to be said for practicality.
Kisses and humps,